[C++] make asan run faster

[chaokunyang]

Feature Request

https://github.com/apache/fory/actions/runs/23642273202/job/68865633774?pr=3522

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe

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Describe the solution you'd like

Not all tests need run, we can just run struct_serializer_test.h and smart_ptr_test and collection_test

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[Geethapranay1]

I investigated the asan slowness and it’s dominated by //cpp/fory/util:float16_test (~246s),
specifically Float16FromFloatTest.SignSymmetryForNonNaNBitPatterns (large float32 bit-pattern scan).

I implemented a small change that keeps normal-build coverage, but skips only this one test under ASAN
(detect ASAN via __has_feature(address_sanitizer) / __SANITIZE_ADDRESS__ and call GTEST_SKIP()).

Local verification:

• bazel test --config=asan --action_env=CCACHE_DISABLE=1 //cpp/fory/util:float16_test --test_output=all
SignSymmetryForNonNaNBitPatterns shows as [SKIPPED] under asan and warm-cache elapsed time is ~0.39s.

i have a question do you prefer this targeted approach (skip only the pathological float16 test under asan),
or would you rather change the asan workflow to run only
//cpp/fory/serialization:struct_test, :smart_ptr_serializer_test, :collection_serializer_test
(as mentioned in the issue)?
I can proceed with either (or do the targeted change first and a follow-up workflow change if needed).